The "Men's Group": Sanctification through Spiritual Friendship

Feast of St Timothy the Apostle of the 70

Men_Square.jpegI JOINED a men’s group five or six years ago, and we’re still meeting. It’s a strange thing, the phenomenon of the “men’s group,” and it takes many forms. Ours is an amalgamation of accountability, study, therapy, and most of all friendship. The five of us who started the group (there are nine of us now) did so because we... Continue Reading


The Trinity: Friendship's Alpha & Omega

Feast of St Macarius the Great

Trinity_Square_2.jpegWHAT IS friendship? Why is it important and why is it worth cultivating? These axiomatic questions form the heart of the Eighth Day Institute’s Symposium, of which I am honored to be a part. They also form a significant part of the thought and writing of C. S. Lewis. In a letter to his lifelong friend, Arthur Greeves, Lewis touched upon the heart... Continue Reading


Friendship & Community in The Wind in the Willows

Feast of St Anthony the Great

Wind_in_Willows_Square.jpegI AM OF the opinion, and I have it on good authority, that The Wind in the Willows is the most beautiful book ever written in the English language. If you haven’t read it, if you haven’t read it since childhood, if you’ve only seen the cartoon (or if you’ve only been on “Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride” at Disneyland), I’ll ask you to... Continue Reading


Melancholy Musings on Friendship: Striving for Unity & Opposing Sectarianism

Feast of the Veneration of the Apostle Peter's Chains

Fr_B__Jim_and_Christopher_Square.jpegI HAVE BEEN Catholic now for a bit more than thirteen years. The estrangement from old friends, church families, and institutions has been difficult for me. Some of those relationships are just now really beginning to show any sign of healing. Some of them, because of things like the pesky interference of the limits of mortal life, never will, at... Continue Reading


Friendship & the Mystery of Personhood

Feast of St. Gregory of Nyssa

Adam_and_Eve_Scenes_Square.jpegWITH THE conjoined truths of the Trinity and Incarnation in mind, Christians may aptly consider how it is that the Triune God enlightens us through one of His created and recreated icons of Love – human communion, as seen particularly in the form known to us as Friendship. Though the world of human relationships is all-too-familiar, a close look at human fellowship discloses... Continue Reading


From Bethlehem to Calvary

Feast of St Melania the Younger, Nun of Rome

Nativity_Square_3.jpgCHRIST IS BORN in Bethlehem of Judea. And the angels sing and proclaim the Divine glory, and declare unto earth peace. But to the heavenly good news of peace, the earthly men respond with a gnashing of hatred, suspicion and malice. The very threshold of the Bethlehem cave was sprinkled by an innocent blood, by the blood of the innocent... Continue Reading


The Mystery of Daniel's Thrones

Feast of St Gideon the New Martyr of Mt Athos

Daniel_Square_2.jpegAS WE celebrate the Feast of the Incarnation, it behooves us to remind ourselves how startling this doctrine really is. A second century conversation between rabbis, recorded in Chagigah 14a of the Babylonian Talmud, might help us ponder anew this mystery. The dispute has to do with the appearance of “thrones,” in the plural, in Daniel’s heavenly vision of... Continue Reading


Love Caused Your Incarnation

Feast of the Martyr Juliana of Nicomedia

Nativity_Square_2.jpegST ANSELM famously asked, “Why did God become man?” [Cur Deus Homo]. After much wandering and weaving through a scholastic web of cause and effect, necessity and the freedom of God, the two natures of Christ, and a reflection upon the atonement, Anselm makes the following observation:

Now we have found the compassion of God which appeared lost to you... Continue Reading


Gene Herr: Do You Have Hope?

Feast of the Martyr Susannah the Deaconess

Prodigal_Son_Square_2.jpegON JANUARY 1, 2012 at 6 PM, hope took in a quick breath, released everything it had left for this world, and lay ashen and still on a small bed in a nondescript room. I was sitting solitary by my father’s bedside, willing him to be released. Never did I think this task would be mine, as the youngest child and only daughter in... Continue Reading


A Resurrected Imagination: Belief in Santa Claus & the Power of the Saints

Feast of St. Nicholas of Myra

Nicholas_Square.jpegI KNOW factually that Santa Claus existed, in the past tense: St. Nicholas of Myra was born on the 15th of March, A.D. 270, and died on the 6th of December, A.D. 343. A Christian bishop in what is now Turkey, he attended the Council of Nicaea (A.D. 325) and, according to tradition, was so zealous for the orthodox belief in the Deity of... Continue Reading